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186 days ago
The art of losing isn't hard to master; so many things seem filled with the intent to be lost that their loss is no disaster. Lose something every day. Accept the fluster of lost door keys, the hour badly spent. The art of losing isn't hard to master. Then practice losing farther, losing faster: places, and names, and where it was you meant to travel. None of these will bring disaster. I lost my mother's watch. And look! my last, or next-to-last, of three loved houses went. The art of losing isn't hard to master. I lost two cities, lovely ones. And, vaster, some realms I owned, two rivers, a continent. I miss them, but it wasn't a disaster. --Even losing you (the joking voice, a gesture I love) I shan't have lied. It's evident the art of losing's not too hard to master though it may look like (Write it!) like disaster.
188 days ago
大傻在窗台上数念着天空的鸡蛋饼。老马继续潜伏，看水下风景。我啃着讨来的馍馍片，觉得，活着，也许很好。这几天的记忆都是打分，点评，麦克风，记不得自己上台曾经会抖。然后，有人说，今天所做的每一件事，都决定了明天的价值。我摸着圆圆的肚子，边啃边笑，猪肉市场明天会更好。明天又是我的周末，我的吉娃娃还是停留在桌面，我的出逃大计还睡在摇篮里。我，顾得上的只有手中的馍馍片。大傻前些天关于沦落庸俗的思考，让我想起三毛的"没有找啊"，让我想起对话的调调儿。对话，多么遥远。据说，对话必须满足三个条件，1.它是双边或多边的；2.双边或多边有着共同关心的话题；3.一方的说话内容必能引起另一方的说话反馈。我记得的，更多的是自言自语，各说各话，貌合神离的对着话。 三毛说：“ 许多人认为，忙碌是忘掉忧伤的良药，我个人却觉得，安静才是化解痛苦的好方法。没有用'克服'而用'化解'这两个字，只因为后者来得更合自然。'克服'两字，显然隐藏着几分刚强，对于健康不但无益，同时必须用忍字心头那把刀呀。'化解'便如清流，如朝雾，如落花，如流水，一切自然而然，随波逐浪。心无执著，痛苦就此化去 ，是更佳的方法。”呵呵，三毛还谈心了，谈着谈着怎么就死掉了呢。
