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251 days ago
Here are just SOME things you can expect from a healthy relationship: * Unconditional love (you can't 'screw up' or DO anything to make him stop loving you) and acceptance of you for who you are. * No more having to jump through emotional hoops to get your needs met. * A true partnership of equals where you both challenge each other, inspire each other, and give one another the freedom to grow as individuals. I mean LIFE has plenty of its own ups and downs without needing to CREATE drama in our romantic relationships. It would be great to be in one of these healthy relationships, where we just function as a SUPPORT SYSTEM for one another to help each other through LIFE's ups and downs. The HIGHS being the joys that life brings (the perfect summer day, realizing our career goals, a baby being born [ours or a friend's!], etc)... and our wonderful man is there to cheer us on. The LOWS might be the inevitable (disappointments, ...
347 days ago
♥ 不要为了寂寞去恋爱，时间是个魔鬼，天长日久，如果你是个多情的人，即使不爱对方，到时候也会产生感情，最后你怎么办？ ♥ 不管多大多老，不管家人朋友怎么催，都不要随便对待婚姻，婚姻不是打牌，重新洗牌要付出巨大代价。 ♥ 和一个生活习惯有很多差异的人恋爱不要紧，结婚要慎重，想想你是否可以长久忍受彼此的不同。 ♥ 有人说恋爱要找自己喜欢的人，结婚要找喜欢自己的人，都是片面的。恋人不喜欢自己有什么可恋的？老婆 / 老 公 自己不喜欢怎么过一辈子？ ♥ 真爱一个人，就要尽量让他开心，他开心了你就会开心，那么双方就有激情了。 ♥ 平平淡淡才是真，没错，可那应该是激情过后的平淡，然后再起激情，再有平淡。激情平淡应呈波浪形交替出现。光有平淡无激情的生活有什么意思？只要你真心爱他，到死你也会有激情的。 ♥ 初恋的人大多都不懂爱，所以初恋失败的多。成功的少。结婚应该找个未婚的，因为谁都喜欢原装。而恋爱，还是找个恋爱过的人才好。因为经历过恋爱的人才知道什么是爱，怎么去爱。 ♥ 男人有钱就变坏，是的，很多男人这样，不过，一有钱就变坏的男人就算没钱，也好不到哪里去。 ♥ 天长地久有没有？当然有！为什么大多数人不相信有？因为他们没有找到人生旅途中最适合自己的那一个。也就是冥冥中注定的那一个。为什么找不到？茫茫人海，人生如露，要找到最合适自己的那一个谈何容易？你或许可以在 40 岁时找到上天注定的那一个，可是你能等到 40 岁吗？在 20 多岁时找不到，却不得不结婚，在三四十岁时找到却不得不放弃。这就是人生的悲哀。 ♥ 要看一个人有没有内涵，内看谈吐，外看着装。还可以看写字。谈吐可以看出一个人的学识和修养。着装可以看出一个人的品位，写字可以看出一个人的性格。 ♥ 想知道一个人爱不爱你，就看他和你在一起有没有活力，开不开心，有就是爱，没有就是不爱。 ♥ 有人说男人一旦变心，九头牛也拉不回，难道女人变心，九头牛就拉得回来吗？男女之间只在生理上有差异，心理方面大同小异 ♥ ...395 days ago
吃饭总坐餐厅的同一个地方 坐公交也是同一个位置 包括上厕所都在同一个坑 喜欢看电影 不相信爱情 吃很多或者不吃 念旧 抱臂（大概就是叉着手吧） 怕黑 莫名其妙的孤单 无法抗拒的恐惧感 -- 一个人住酒店的时候 ~~~ 喜欢有口袋的衣服 , 穿没有口袋的衣服 , 不知道手往哪放 喜欢抱着东西睡觉 蜷缩着睡觉 喜欢角落和窗户 冷颤 晚睡 写字和阅读 独自流泪 笑容纯真 喜欢黑白或鲜艳 心事放在心里最温柔的地方，活在自己的世界里 想做饭给自己吃结果做糊了少放盐了 反复听一首歌无限期 抱枕头 关机不想理人 在朋友面前很折腾 找机会做狂躁的举动 坐在车上听 MP3 听到 哭
497 days ago
These are timeless words. They have reminded us how many times we have wished for someone to take us as we are, even if it’s a silent little wish we dare only to dream. Like an innocent little child we dream of the total acceptance of another person or others, to be accepted for all our faults, weaknesses and still cherish us in the same way after knowing the difference. Is it like gambling or is it trust when we find something in another person that helps us to accept ourselves and thus let us open up in a way we had never know? Haven’t you ever wondered what would happen if one day the world could see you as you are? In most of us, there is always something in us we don’t particular like about ourselves. Sometime just the thought of them could make our stomach turn and it’s enough to makes us wanting to hide these not so pretty sides of us away. When it comes to personal relationships these broken pieces of us can make or break the relationship. When is it ...
